Jan 30 2009
Dealing with separation anxiety
Does your dog wreak havoc at home when you leave, leaving poop and pee everywhere? Are your neighbors complaining about the non-stop howling and barking? If yes, your pooch might be suffering from separation anxiety. Just like a human child separated from a parent, pets can get traumatized and anxious when left by its primary caretaker. Other symptoms of separation anxiety in dogs include excessive grooming or licking, hyperactivity and depression or lethargy.
According to my friend Shaun Omstead, dogs have different ways of dealing with separation anxiety. Some will simply sigh and wait patiently for you to come back, and others will go into panic mode, crying and barking, trying to get you to come back. Some destroy things, such as plants, books, pillows, anything that was “yours”, even to the extent of defecating on the floor.
To get rid of your dog’s separation anxiety, make your comings and goings as inconspicuous as possible. The thought of being abandoned can be nerve-wracking for some dogs but some people unwittingly reinforce this anxiety by making a production of leaving in the belief that this will calm their pet. Unfortunately, it gives the opposite effect. Nothing enforces a dog’s belief that he has something to worry about more than somebody trying to keep him calm.
Try to desensitize your dog with your comings and goings by leaving the house for a little while, just a few seconds, and then come back. Once your dog is accustomed to seeing you go out and come right back in, you can increase the time you are out. This technique will help him get over his fear of abandonment.
Another good tip is to give your pooch a good workout. A tired dog will sleep (hopefully) while you are gone, and by wearing him out before you leave, he may be too tired to work up to a good panic.
Or try to keep your pet busy while you are out by providing mind-consuming dog toys like a Kong stuffed with cheese or peanut butter which will keep your dog busy trying to get the goodies out.





