My Bestfriend

Cats are just adorable! They may not be as aggressive as dogs when showing affection to their humans but when they do, it’s the best feeling in the world! It may seem that cats have lives of their own and don’t care whatever is happening around them.  But just like any other pets, cats also need love and affection.

According to my friend Shaun Olmstead, my personal cat whisperer, these gentle and mysterious creatures are one of the most affectionate pets.  They just turn aloof and withdrawn when you don’t bond with them. If your cat is down and sluggish, he may be in need of some tender loving care.  Shaun share some tips on how to bond with your cat.

Shaun says we should always make it a point to pet and stroke our cats until they had their fill. You’ll know when that point is when they fall asleep or jump out of your arms. Purring is a very good sign. That would be the noise that sounds like it should be coming out of a refrigerator instead of a live animal. As they say, a purring cat is usually a content cat.

Also pay attention to you cat’s meows. This usually means they want something and it’s their best way to communicate. The meow could mean, “feed me,” “love me” or “change my litter.” Learn what the different sounds mean so that you can fulfill the cat’s wishes. Talking back to them will also increase the bond.

Cats can clean themselves and hardly requires grooming but brushing your cat is a good way to bond. Keep in mind some techniques may annoy them and some cats don’t like to be brushed at all. Test out different brushes and only do what they seem to enjoy.

Play with your cat. Try various toys and different approaches to see what works best. Interactive play will strengthen the bond.

Cuddle with your cat, whether it’s coming home from a long day or taking time out of your busy schedule. He’ll appreciate it—and so will you.

Let your cat sleep in the bed with you. What better way to bond than snuggling up for a nap or a good night’s rest?

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